At the end of today's PD lesson, we were given a website to go have our EQ level tested! I got the lowest in the whole class!! 40%! highest was 85%.
Here goes the analysis:
You scored 40% correct!
Remember you responses need to have been as honest as possible. If you feel that your score does not reflect you, please retake the test and answer each question in the way that best represents the way you typically feel.
Your score indicates that you have a below average EQ.
People that typically score in this range sometimes have trouble recognising and understanding their feelings. They are not always able to express their feelings in the most appropriate manner. They often have doubts and concerns about who they really are. They do not have much confidence in themselves and in their abilities. In most circumstances, they have a difficult time showing love, empathy and compassion for other people. In general, they are not comfortable with intimacy.
They also have trouble communicating with other people. They struggle with getting in tune with themselves and those around them. They may sometimes say the wrong thing at the wrong moment. They sometimes find it hard to show their anger or deal with anger directed at them. At times they are unable to stand up for themselves when hurt or they are handle confrontation inappropriately. They may have trouble admitting when they are wrong; and when they do make mistakes, they are often uncomfortable apologising to those they hurt.
People with below average EQ may also have low levels of self-worth. They do not like challenges or commitment and are afraid of change. They have a difficult time staying motivated and focused when they have set unattainable goals for themselves. They are fairly pessimistic about themselves and their future.
However, one great thing about emotional intelligence is that it's fluid! A person can increase their EQ at any point of their life! People with below average EQ can start by learning how to identify their emotions and take responsibility for them. There are many resources to help. People with low EQ can read books about EQ and social skills, find out about anger management courses and communication skills courses, join a support group or see a counsellor. They can keep a diary of their emotions, and ask their friends to help them recognise the things about themselves that need correcting. If these things are done there is no doubt that they can increase their emotional intelligence and live a healthy, happy life.
Some true, some not.
If you want try, go http://quiz.ivillage.co.uk/uk_work/tests/eqtest.htm
Ohyea, my SMART goals assignment I got grade D! Actually is C but handed in late and was dropped by 1 grade!=.=
Engineering Mathematics test today and I don't really have much confidence passing it, not to mention about ace-ing it luhs huh? LOLS!!
HUIYING!
Sunday, May 17, 2009
Hello people! Long time no blog!
Last Friday was the latest time I go home after school since Poly started! I reached home around 10pm! Lessons till 5pm and then went library with Clarence and Renjun. Renjun was teaching Clarence AutoCAD while I studied Maths there. Left the school at 8pm and went to a coffeeshop near school! Ate and chatted till 9pm and I went to take bus home and they walked throught NYP to MRT station.
4 weeks of poly passed! Tomorrow will be 5th week! GOSH!! Anyway, I hate my elective!=.= Personal Development(PD)! I would rather get other electives like Maths, English or Physics! At least it helps in my modules! Can't choose for the 1st semester!! It's like..SO USELESS can! The previous assignment was set 2 goals with a SMART format.
Specific
Measurable
Achievable
Relevant
Time referenced
Well, it looks like easy job but 2 A4 pages for 1 goals! Total 4 pages and need do presentation on week 13 telling people how you reach your goal! Crazy! Who share goals like that with 4 pages and presentation! I didn't care and handed up 1 page per goal. Wait, maybe not even 1 page! There is PD tomorrow, may get nagging or critism and hahs, need to waste 2 hours there again!zzZ If poly is like secondary school whereby we can drop subject, I CONFIRM drop this module! Lame like shit!
Ohyea! During one of the lecture last week, Aaron and I sat at the same row where there are 3 seats but left a seat empty in the middle(I don't know why we did that also. Lols!) and the girl who "stepped on my toes" came in and asked, "Anybody sitting here?"
Aaron: Ya, I think someone sitting.
But she still walked in and sit! =.= And my MSN started to have alot of conversation saying almost the same thing "Pity you!" YES! She is sitting beside me! Then Samantha started thinking of plans to let me change place with her and sit with Aaron which is better cos I can talk to Aaron!
Aaron: Huiying! Your laptop batt getting low right? Want charge?
Me: Ohya! Want!!
Aaron to her: Er..can change place with Huiying? Cos here got socket, sit inside more convenient!
And yes, changed though she is still sitting beside me! Thanks guys!=D
I don't think she have a friend in the class! Everyone is like anti her! Even Wenjun(the china girl) said she is scary or irritating!
If swimming is good for your figure, explain whales to me!
HUIYING!
Last Friday was the latest time I go home after school since Poly started! I reached home around 10pm! Lessons till 5pm and then went library with Clarence and Renjun. Renjun was teaching Clarence AutoCAD while I studied Maths there. Left the school at 8pm and went to a coffeeshop near school! Ate and chatted till 9pm and I went to take bus home and they walked throught NYP to MRT station.
4 weeks of poly passed! Tomorrow will be 5th week! GOSH!! Anyway, I hate my elective!=.= Personal Development(PD)! I would rather get other electives like Maths, English or Physics! At least it helps in my modules! Can't choose for the 1st semester!! It's like..SO USELESS can! The previous assignment was set 2 goals with a SMART format.
Specific
Measurable
Achievable
Relevant
Time referenced
Well, it looks like easy job but 2 A4 pages for 1 goals! Total 4 pages and need do presentation on week 13 telling people how you reach your goal! Crazy! Who share goals like that with 4 pages and presentation! I didn't care and handed up 1 page per goal. Wait, maybe not even 1 page! There is PD tomorrow, may get nagging or critism and hahs, need to waste 2 hours there again!zzZ If poly is like secondary school whereby we can drop subject, I CONFIRM drop this module! Lame like shit!
Ohyea! During one of the lecture last week, Aaron and I sat at the same row where there are 3 seats but left a seat empty in the middle(I don't know why we did that also. Lols!) and the girl who "stepped on my toes" came in and asked, "Anybody sitting here?"
Aaron: Ya, I think someone sitting.
But she still walked in and sit! =.= And my MSN started to have alot of conversation saying almost the same thing "Pity you!" YES! She is sitting beside me! Then Samantha started thinking of plans to let me change place with her and sit with Aaron which is better cos I can talk to Aaron!
Aaron: Huiying! Your laptop batt getting low right? Want charge?
Me: Ohya! Want!!
Aaron to her: Er..can change place with Huiying? Cos here got socket, sit inside more convenient!
And yes, changed though she is still sitting beside me! Thanks guys!=D
I don't think she have a friend in the class! Everyone is like anti her! Even Wenjun(the china girl) said she is scary or irritating!
If swimming is good for your figure, explain whales to me!
HUIYING!
Friday, May 8, 2009
Today was short cos it's a odd week! Even week will be till 5! Anyway, went for an hour lecture at 1pm! Still went for the e-learning even though the lecturer said he will not take attendance during e-learning! But I went there to play facebook cos most of my classmates go, you see! LOLS! Left the ELP at 3+pm. Together with Clarence, Renjun, Nicholas and Aaron, we decided to hop onto Clarence's car and go somewhere outside to eat! He drove his dad's car instead of his today and his dad's car machiam like racing car as in the modification. I sat at the front seat and he drove up to 120km per hour! He opened all the windows, messed up my hair! Hahs! Went Upper thomson road for prata! Nice nice! But I don't know how to go! T.T
Ohyea! Few days ago, a group of us was walking to Mac for lunch and they suddenly talk about "Taller people die more easily" And Clarence suddenly said,
Clarence: Huh?! Taller people die easier?
Guy from the other class: Ya.
Clarence: Ooh! Heng ah!
*pause for a few seconds*
And said, "Then she not don't have to die?" *pointing at me*
He got a good strangle from me! Seriously, I don't know how they got the theory! LOLS!
NYP's canteens and mac look like jail!!=.=
HUIYING!
Ohyea! Few days ago, a group of us was walking to Mac for lunch and they suddenly talk about "Taller people die more easily" And Clarence suddenly said,
Clarence: Huh?! Taller people die easier?
Guy from the other class: Ya.
Clarence: Ooh! Heng ah!
*pause for a few seconds*
And said, "Then she not don't have to die?" *pointing at me*
He got a good strangle from me! Seriously, I don't know how they got the theory! LOLS!
NYP's canteens and mac look like jail!!=.=
HUIYING!
Saturday, May 2, 2009
Didn't went out on Labour day in the end! Just stayed at home and accompany my mum. Hahas! Good girl right? Lols! For dinner, had my favourite dish, 麦片虾 at the coffeeshop near my house! Yum yum! =D
Stayed at home the whole of today too! Played Restaurant City almost the whole day, a game in facebook if you have no idea what's that! Yea, I am still playing now! XD I realised so many people overtook me! Maybe I shall on RC to let in run while having lectures too eh? Hahas!
Ohyea, signed in friendster not long ago and I somehow feel myself being very noob at friendster! I think I am going to make my friendster account alive or maybe not!? Still thinking. Lols!
I shall get myself to do e-learning and quizzes tomorrow, hopefully! Cannot procrastinate anymore!!
Oh! Oh! Chaojun sms-ed me telling me she signed up for dragonboat too! But I am more interesting in adventure club eh! Sorry ah, cj!
Jiaxin chatted with me about her school and told me about a girl keep sticking to her as if she was her only friend! LOLS! Made me think of a girl in my school too! Zhengxiong hor??
2 of my classmates know my blog! Nevermind, as long as she don't know can already!
On Thursday she asked me to come over cos she got something to ask me.
I thought it was some lesson related stuff, so I walked to her place.
I saw my email address in the google search bar.
Her: You got facebook or friendster?
Me: Ya, I have both but only using facebook.
Her: Oh! But how come I cannot find you using google?
Me: Er..How I know?
Her: Umm..Okay, then you got blog?
Me: Ya.
Her: Oh okay, write to me the url.
Me: Huh? Nonono!
And I walked away despite her asking me why.
Bad? Who asked her to step on my toes first!
This is how she "stepped my toes"! Small matter but her attitude made me pissed!=.=
On the 2nd day of prepartory maths. 17 April, I think!
On the way to school, I switch my phone profile to silent and stuff it into my bag. She called but I didn't feel any vibration. I went into the lecture room and she was later than me.
Her: A! How come I call you, you never pick up?
Me: Huh? Got meh? (I was still having a smile on my face)
She suddenly raised her voice.
Her: Where you put your phone?!
WTH! As if it's a crime not to pick up her phone! I wiped my smile off and I raised my voice.
Me: So fierce for what?!
She got nothing to say and got herself a seat!
Another incident was one of the days of week 1.
She said her phone no money already and asked if she could use my phone to sms someone. I agreed. So yea, while we are doing e-learning in e-learning plaza, she walked over to my place to ask if the person replied?
Her: Did Stanley reply?
Me: Er..no.
She suddenly changed her tone like I owe her something like that! Come on la! She is the one asking favour from me yet give me that tone! zzZ
Her: How you know?! I thought you never carry the phone with you one?
I couldn't take it and I turned around murmured the four letter word! And I shoo-ed her off saying, "Aiya! Will let you know one la!" without looking at her!
She is formidable! Formidable in a way where she could make me lose my cool twice in less than a week! Lols!
Praying hard that she can never find my blog! Hahs!
HUIYING!
Stayed at home the whole of today too! Played Restaurant City almost the whole day, a game in facebook if you have no idea what's that! Yea, I am still playing now! XD I realised so many people overtook me! Maybe I shall on RC to let in run while having lectures too eh? Hahas!
Ohyea, signed in friendster not long ago and I somehow feel myself being very noob at friendster! I think I am going to make my friendster account alive or maybe not!? Still thinking. Lols!
I shall get myself to do e-learning and quizzes tomorrow, hopefully! Cannot procrastinate anymore!!
Oh! Oh! Chaojun sms-ed me telling me she signed up for dragonboat too! But I am more interesting in adventure club eh! Sorry ah, cj!
Jiaxin chatted with me about her school and told me about a girl keep sticking to her as if she was her only friend! LOLS! Made me think of a girl in my school too! Zhengxiong hor??
2 of my classmates know my blog! Nevermind, as long as she don't know can already!
On Thursday she asked me to come over cos she got something to ask me.
I thought it was some lesson related stuff, so I walked to her place.
I saw my email address in the google search bar.
Her: You got facebook or friendster?
Me: Ya, I have both but only using facebook.
Her: Oh! But how come I cannot find you using google?
Me: Er..How I know?
Her: Umm..Okay, then you got blog?
Me: Ya.
Her: Oh okay, write to me the url.
Me: Huh? Nonono!
And I walked away despite her asking me why.
Bad? Who asked her to step on my toes first!
This is how she "stepped my toes"! Small matter but her attitude made me pissed!=.=
On the 2nd day of prepartory maths. 17 April, I think!
On the way to school, I switch my phone profile to silent and stuff it into my bag. She called but I didn't feel any vibration. I went into the lecture room and she was later than me.
Her: A! How come I call you, you never pick up?
Me: Huh? Got meh? (I was still having a smile on my face)
She suddenly raised her voice.
Her: Where you put your phone?!
WTH! As if it's a crime not to pick up her phone! I wiped my smile off and I raised my voice.
Me: So fierce for what?!
She got nothing to say and got herself a seat!
Another incident was one of the days of week 1.
She said her phone no money already and asked if she could use my phone to sms someone. I agreed. So yea, while we are doing e-learning in e-learning plaza, she walked over to my place to ask if the person replied?
Her: Did Stanley reply?
Me: Er..no.
She suddenly changed her tone like I owe her something like that! Come on la! She is the one asking favour from me yet give me that tone! zzZ
Her: How you know?! I thought you never carry the phone with you one?
I couldn't take it and I turned around murmured the four letter word! And I shoo-ed her off saying, "Aiya! Will let you know one la!" without looking at her!
She is formidable! Formidable in a way where she could make me lose my cool twice in less than a week! Lols!
Praying hard that she can never find my blog! Hahs!
HUIYING!
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